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  • Writer's pictureMama Witzig

Nanny or Not: A Guide for New Parents

Updated: Jul 31, 2023


Becoming a parent is an incredibly exciting but overwhelming journey. As you navigate through sleepless nights, feeding schedules, and endless diaper changes, the end of your maternity leave looms and it's natural to wonder if hiring a nanny is the right choice for your family. In this blog post, we aim to provide a comprehensive guide to help you weigh the pros and cons of hiring a nanny, ultimately assisting you in making an informed decision.

Nanny holding toddler

Pros of Hiring a Nanny:

1. Personalized Care: Unlike daycare centers or other childcare options, hiring a nanny offers the advantage of one-on-one attention. Your child will receive personalized care, tailored to their individual needs, allowing them to thrive and develop at their own pace.

2. Flexibility: A nanny provides unmatched flexibility when it comes to scheduling. This can be particularly beneficial for working parents who have irregular or long working hours. You can coordinate schedules with your nanny to ensure your little one is always in safe hands.

3. Reduced Exposure to Illnesses: Particularly during the early years, when a child's immune system is still developing, exposing them to a daycare center with multiple children can often lead to frequent illnesses. By hiring a nanny, you can minimize the risk of your child falling ill.

4. Continuity: With a nanny, you won't have to worry about frequently changing caregivers. Building a consistent bond between your child and the caregiver promotes a sense of security, stability, and trust, which can be invaluable during their formative years.

5. Ultimate convenience: No need to add taking your kiddo to daycare to your chaotic morning; a nanny can come to your home instead. For those working from home this is paramount to maximize your working hours, allowing you to get to and done with work faster. This ultimately gives you more time in your day that you don't have to spend on your car, driving to and fro.

Two toddlers playing

Cons of Hiring a Nanny:

1. Cost: Hiring a nanny can be a significant financial investment. In addition to the nanny's salary, you may need to provide benefits, such as healthcare or paid time off. It's important to weigh the financial impact against the benefits and resources the nanny brings to your family. If you have more than one child around the same age though, it might comparable cost hiring a nanny as sending both to a childcare center.

2. Dependency: Depending on a nanny means if she has time off or worse, calls in sick last minute you need to have a backup plan for childcare or have to take time off work as well. It's important to find a reliable nanny and for them to provide ample notice when they intent to take time off so you have time to plan for it.

3. Finding the Right Fit: The process of finding a suitable nanny can be time-consuming and labor-intensive. You have to conduct extensive background checks, interviews, and trial periods to find the right caregiver who shares your family values and parenting style. Websites like Urban Sitter help connect families with nannies, pre-screen caregivers with background checks, and facilitate scheduling phone interviews with potential candidates.

Urban Sitter was a blessing for our nanny search. With its help we were able to find the right fit for our family.

4. Lack of Socialization: While the one-on-one attention from a nanny can be beneficial, it may limit your child's exposure to other children. Socialization is vital for their development, and it may be necessary to supplement the nanny's care with playdates or daycare for additional interaction.

We were fortunate to find a nanny with a child around the same age as our own. She gets to bring her child to work with her and our children get to play and socialize with each other! It's a win-win for everyone.


Choosing whether to hire a nanny is a deeply personal decision that depends on factors such as your family's needs, financial situation, and personal preferences. Before making a decision, consider the pros and cons discussed above and evaluate what feels right for your family. Remember, every family is unique, and the ideal childcare solution will vary from one family to another. Whether you choose to hire a nanny, enroll your child in daycare, or opt for another arrangement, the most crucial aspect is ensuring your child's safety, happiness, and overall development.

Our last tip is to keep your options open. With the current situation of limited early childcare centers to the high demand we're seeing now, it's a great idea to get on a few waitlists for centers you'd like. You can hire a nanny or take your child to any available childcare setting while you wait for your ideal spot to have an opening.

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